
Smoke Gets in Your Eyes: And Other Lessons from the Crematory
Her debut book and foundational memoir, introducing her perspective on cremation, funeral work, and death acceptance.

Author guide
Caitlin Doughty is an American mortician, writer, filmmaker, and death-acceptance advocate. She founded The Order of the Good Death and created the Ask a Mortician educational documentary series. Her nonfiction combines memoir, cultural history, travel writing, humor, and practical discussion of death care, cremation, burial, and mourning.
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Her debut book and foundational memoir, introducing her perspective on cremation, funeral work, and death acceptance.
An accessible question-and-answer introduction to her approach, especially suitable for readers who prefer shorter, focused chapters.
Outside the series
travel memoir · 2017
Describes death customs and rituals from around the world, exploring how they compare to the impersonal American system and how mourners respond best when they participate in caring for the deceased.
Caitlin Doughty is a mortician, writer, and funeral-industry reform advocate. She is known for creating the Ask a Mortician web series and founding The Order of the Good Death.
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Her interest was shaped by reading about death and the macabre in high school, studying medieval history at the University of Chicago, and engaging with influential works on death and funerary traditions by Philippe Ariès and Ernest Becker.
She began in the funeral industry as a crematory operator and later became a licensed funeral director. She turned that firsthand experience into public education through Ask a Mortician and advocacy through The Order of the Good Death.
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It encourages people to treat death as a natural part of life and to challenge the fear, silence, and limited choices surrounding dying and funerals. Her organization also advocates for more equitable and environmentally responsible death-care options.
Her memoir was shortlisted for the 2015 PEN Center USA Literary Award for Creative Nonfiction. Her 2019 book Will My Cat Eat My Eyeballs? won the 2019 Goodreads Choice Award for Science & Technology.
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